1) When he drops you off after a night on the town, he swears he'll call you tomorrow.

• a) And he does! Every time!
• b) Sometimes he does. Sometimes he doesn't. Probably depends on whether he remembered to plug in his brain.
• c) Yeah, right. You'll be lucky if he remembers your name when he sees you in class.

• a) He doesn't even notice because he's gazing deeply into your eyes.
• b) He gives her a quick look when he thinks you're not looking. Like you wouldn't notice that!
• c) He knocks you into the trashcan as he bolts after her.

• a) He has a limo pick you up for a night you'll never forget.
• b) He sends you an e-card at 11:59 p.m. Just under the wire!
• c) As if he can be bothered to remember those details!

• a) He buys you the jumbo popcorn and soda, and then switches seats with you so you don't have to sit behind the lady with the big hair.
• b) He only brings enough money to pay for his own ticket. Dutch, anyone?
• c) He puts his arm around your shoulders so he can pinch the hot chick sitting on your other side without you noticing. As if!

• a) He requested the DJ play "your" song because it reminds him of when he first fell in love with you.
• b) He danced with you only on the slow songs and spent the rest of the night in the corner with his buddies.
• c) He spent the night dancing with his ex-girlfriend, telling you they're "just friends."

• a) He gives you the game ball and announces to everyone that you inspired him to success.
• b) He gives you a high five on his way out to party with his buddies.
• c) He doesn't notice when you get trampled by the crowd.

• a) He hugs you and listens to you cry and complain for three hours, skipping a night out with his friends because you need him.
• b) He gives you a slap on the butt and tells you to lighten up.
• c) He asks whether that means your friend is no longer off limits for the dating thing.

Scoring:
Give yourself the following:
5 points for every (a) answer.
3 points for every (b) answer
1 point for every (c) answer

30-35 points: Ledge Goddess! Pat yourself on the back! You've done a great job keeping him teetering on the edge of the Ledge. High winds are swirling and he's holding on with his fingertips while his spleen shouts out with terror. He wouldn't dare wrong you for fear of losing you! That boy is whipped! Time for you to start offering training classes to the other girls in your school.

21-29 points: Warning lights are flashing! Sometimes he has a toe on the Ledge, but you're heading for heartbreak if you don't push him out there a little more often. Make him wonder if you like him sometimes. Take a couple extra days to reply to his email. Don't always stop when he waits for you outside class. Put a little doubt in his mind and he'll smarten right up.

20 points or less: You're in trouble, girlfriend! You're the one out there in the hurricane force winds, waiting for him to call, your gut all twisted up in a knot. Girls don't belong on the Ledge, remember? Time for you to play some serious hardball to get the power back in this relationship. Make him wonder if you like him. Steel your heart to his baby blues and start being too busy to take his calls sometimes. It's hard to do, but you'll feel so much better when you can stand inside your cozy little house and wave through the window at him, as he hangs onto that Ledge so desperately!